Hello everyone. Hope you all are doing well. After
long gap we are starting our conversations again. Friends on last Saturday I
met some students from the standard 7 & 8th. It was for general discussion about
their studies friends, groups, teachers, parents, etc.
In discussion I was surprised by observing their tremendous Energy & Confidence. But at the same time when I heard some of the concerns from them, it disturbed me. The concerns were about their relationship with parents & the change in relationship between a girl and a boy.
You must be thinking, How can be it’s a concern? We will see. While discussion when I questioned, how much are you comfortable to deal with your parents? Are you all telling everything to them? The answer was No. We don’t tell all to our parent’s because if we do so, then questioning will start for each and every minute thing. They will say no, to us before listening our opinion. Girls were annoying that parents always make difference between a boy and a girl. According to Girls, they are considered accountable for each and everything but boys aren’t. Girls are facing restrictions in-spite the boys enjoy freedom.
Now another concern of our discussion was relationship between a boy and a girl. It means they want to say that the paradigm of boys towards girls has changed. Friends you will be shocked by knowing what Girls have told. According to them now days the std 5th or 6th the boys are looking at girls with wrong intention, sometime making them feel awkward in front of boys.
You can imagine the thought process of Children in
today’s days. At the same time the breach is increasing day by day
between Parents & their Children.
I am leaving this conversation here... It’s up to
individual, what message should to be taken from this Discussion. Isn’t it? Be Safe & Take Care...
