Heard the word? No......, this word is started creating a noise in our today’s life. Definitely you may have thought at least once in life, that “Yar baki dostone to bahot kuch hasil kar liya he but mere pas unse kam he, sala puchenge to kya kahunga??” OR "If you are students then your parents may compare you with your friends, certainly..." OR "Sometime You yourself compare with your friends or peers".
These are just
examples, to understand what can be a Peer Pressure. All of us, at all levels
of life faced this or facing these issues. Doesn’t matter what’s your age or
profession is, some where it exists in your back of the mind. In today's stress
full life it’s becoming one of the cause of Depression, Sorrow, Tension, Stress etc.
Peer pressure
is concept where you try to compare yourself with your closed ones or with your
surrounding contacts. In this comparison if you are at better position than
others then it’s good, but if you are below than others, then it starts to
create negative thoughts within.
It’s not that
the peer pressure is very big issue to tackle with, but at the same time it is
important, that we should not allow generating such thoughts aggravating to build a
pressure on Us. As such pressure or negative thoughts, creates
inferiority complex in our mind. This state of mind impacts your confidence to
perform or meet the people better than you, then you starts to avoid those
people or such incidences to face with.
This is the
subject, nobody nobody talk about, but everybody try to manage with
situation and continues to live with mortification. Be safe & Take Care...
Quite frequently, almost everyone in their childhood, face peer pressure e.g. in classroom, almost 99% student's feel pressured to raise their hands to clear their doubts with a thinking that others may laugh "are yar kaisa budhhu hai, itnabhi samaj mein nahi aya isako" actually, only 1% understood d things correctly, others not. But peer pressure created unnecessary burden and hesitation as well. Same like, we shall stop thinking / compare too much with others. All are good at their levels.
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