Hi…in our
last blog we left the discussion on types of peer pressure. So we will continue
the same topic. As we have seen there are two types of peer pressure, let's understand the 1st Pressure...
1. Negative
Peer Pressure:
It means the
children’s are negatively influencing each other. Like friends are asking to
smokes, take alcohols, drugs, in some extreme cases sex also. In such situation
He/she not able to resist directly though they don’t like to do this but just because of the fear of losing the group & they fall into prey of it.
This type of
peer pressure is more dangerous. If the child (He/She) facing this situation cannot
refuse (afraid to say NO) to this pressure then, they may addict of such
things. For same there are some tactics on “how to say No to someone” or “how
handle such situations”, about which children should aware of.
Apart from
above things, In some cases child (He/She) feel inferiority complex, as one
sees that others wearing or doing something & he/she don’t, then they try
for follow the same to uphold themselves at equal of others. In such cases children’s
are just behind their parents for purchases of new things or mobile or electronic
gadgets, where the demands are not at all logical, but they are…certainly because
they are not aware about such kind of prey.
Social Media,
in today’s era of technology this is another aspect which starts to create a
noise. Such as, how many friends you have in your friend list? Who is getting maximum
likes? who follows to whom?, in social media groups making fun of someone to
extreme level where the victim suffers from tremendous nervous feelings. In which
game you are master?, if somebody cannot play that game then laugh on him/her feel
them shamefull in front of other children, so many cases we have to talk about.
It’s not that the Negative Peer
Pressure cannot be handled or can’t be tackled. There are ways to take out any
child from the prey of negative thoughts. If anybody has any concern or questions,
please do write me on comment with your mail address, I will try to support
you.
In our next blog we will see Positive Peer Pressure, till then Be Safe & Take Care…
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